This morning I woke up feeling positive and wanting to share my feelings. I’m not one to share feelings, so when the moment strikes it is important to grasp it with both hands!
I’ve been away from home for a couple of months now, I can’t say I’m missing England but I miss my family and friends incredibly! I’m away for such a short space of time that it feel like I’m only on an extended holiday. But home is where the heart is! Luckily staying connected through social media makes it a lot easier…
The alien in the above picture is me. Well, if I was pink and given away with McDonald’s ‘Happy Meals’ then this alien would be an accurate representation of me. My nephew gave it to me just before I left home so I could take it away with me to give to a little girl whose mother I’m good friends with. It’s been travelling around with me on my adventures in South East Asia, so now the said nephew wants it back. But he is only 4 years old so we can forgive him!
So I have been told that this alien is called ‘Oh’ and he is a character in an animated movie, I’ve not seen it but I read this little extract:
‘When Oh, a loveable misfit from another planet, lands on Earth and finds himself on the run from his own people, he forms an unlikely friendship with an adventurous girl named Tip who is on a quest of her own. Through a series of comic adventures with Tip, Oh comes to understand that being different and making mistakes is all part of being human. And while he changes her planet and she changes his world, they discover the true meaning of the word HOME.’ Written by 20th Century Fox
So during this time in Myanmar, I am Oh…
I’m a mis-fit from another country, finding myself in Myanmar running away from home. However I’ve formed not one, but many, friendships on my adventure and I too have come to the understanding that it’s OK to make mistakes. I think I should watch this movie! 😉
The people in the above photo have become my very good friends in Myanmar. In the sort time I have been here we have bonded over our common love of food and desire to work with the community. They each have their individual stories to tell, but they are equally inspiring! From each conversation I have I drawn strength and am grateful for every word of encouragement and all the laughter we have shared. We’ve been through some challenging times together and without these guys I may still be a little lost…
I’m a reserved person who likes to isolate myself from others and I have to talk myself into doing things that scare me. It doesn’t come naturally to me to strike up a conversation with a stranger and conversation with someone I’ve just met can be a strain. However if we talk about food, that’s another story! 😀
I brought a copy fo the Celestine Prophecy with me for a bit of light reading. I took a lot from it when I first read it nearly 15 years ago, but this time it didn’t have the same impact. Though what stuck with me was the need to be open to new experiences and watch out for ‘signs’ or ‘coincidences’ that would help lead you to the path of what you are looking for. In a way that makes sense, because we will believe what we want to and read into things in a positive way if we want certain answers to questions in life.
As anyone knows, being the ‘new person’ whether it be at a party or in a city is a daunting experience. However I’ve come to realise that everyone is in the same situation, it’s the way that person deals with it that is different. I can shy away, hoping not to draw attention to myself or I can introduce myself to the next person to open myself up to new experiences. It took me a while to get over the fear of rejection but I still have to talk myself into taking that first step. (Obviously in my head! Who wants to talk to someone who talks to themselves out loud?!)
By being open to these new experiences, I have met some amazing people. Local Myanmar and international travellers and expats. I’ve reconnected with long-lost friends and become more confident to take the next steps in my career and personal life with a different perspective and way of tackling decisions. When travelling around on buses or hanging around in hotel grounds, I’ve struck up many conversations with people who are going through transformational changes in their lives… making the decision to steer themselves in the right direction rather than being carried along a path that doesn’t suit them. From each person I have learned these key lessons (and it doesn’t matter how many times you read these messages or people tell you them, as it has to happen when you are ready to take notice):
- You’re never too old to change your life
- It’s OK to make mistakes, nothing is forever
- Experiences are only bad if you don’t learn anything from them
- Do something that scares, it you makes you feel alive
- Not everyone wants to be the shining light in the room, humility is a valuable trait
With this new-found optimism and thirst for life, I will return to England in July knowing that everything will be fine and whatever happens will happen because it is right for me at that moment.
So I’ve just over one week left in Myanmar before I head of on a whistle-stop tour of Singapore and Malaysia, and am trying to make the most of my time here. Of course, being a foodie most of my plans are revolving around food. The fruits grown locally are so amazing that I am desperately trying to eat as much of it as I can before I leave. A mango for breakfast every day is the norm as well as snacking on rambutan throughout the day…
So I’ve shared with you my personal journey, from leaving my job in September 2014 to getting back into the head space I need to be to decide on where I choose my life to be next. I still have until September 2015 to make a decision on what that next step is but I’m ahead of the game! 😀